Monday, September 3, 2007

How to be a Friend

01. Don't worry about knowing people just make yourself worth knowing.

02. Friends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer.

03.If you can buy a person's friendship, it is not worth it.

04. True friends have hearts that beat as one.

05. If you cannot think of any nice things to say about your friends, then you have the wrong friends.

06. Make friends before you need them.

07. If you were another person, would you like to be a friend of yours?

08. A good friend is one who neither looks down on you nor keeps up with you.

09. Be friendly with the folks you know… if it weren't for them you would be a total stranger.

10. A friend is never known till he is needed.

11. Friendship is a responsibility...not an opportunity.

12. Friendship is the cement that holds the world together.

13. Friends are those who speak to you after others don't.

14. The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail and not his tongue.

15. Pick your friends, but not to pieces.

16. A friend is one who puts his finger on a fault without rubbing it in.

17. The way to have friends is to be willing to lose some arguments.

18. If a friend makes a mistake, don't rub it in... rub it out.

19. Deal with other's faults as gently as if they were your own.

20. People are judged by the company they keep and the company they keep away from.

21. A friend is a person who can step on your toes without messing up your shine.

22. The best mirror is an old friend. 23. The best possession one may have is a true friend.

24. Make friendship a habit and you will always have friends.

25. You will never have a friend if you must have one without faults.

26. Doing nothing for your friends results in having no friends to do for.

27. Anyone can give advice, but a real friend will lend a helping hand.

28. You can make more friends by being interested in them than trying to have them be interested in you.

29. A real friend is a person who, when you've made a fool of yourself, lets you forget it.

30. A friend is a person who listens attentively while you say nothing.

31. You can buy friendship with friendship, but never with dollars.

32. True friends are like diamonds, precious but rare; false friends are like autumn leaves, found everywhere.

33. A friend is someone who thinks you're a good egg even though you're slightly cracked

Can men and women be 'just friends'?

The short answer is 'Yes', but with conditions.

Men and women cannot be friends from the very beginning because the reason why a man, in particular, will be interested in a woman is not platonic. It is most likely to be sexual. At the start, two strangers of the opposite sex are always drawn together through basic physical attraction, nothing else. There is always the hope, by at least one party, that the friendship will lead to something more intimate, and possibly permanent. Friendship under that guise cannot ever be platonic. There will always be tension as one person tries to keep the other person as a 'friend' and the other tries to move that friendship along to something else.

The only time real friendship is possible between a man and a woman is when the expectations, on BOTH sides, have been satisfied, or clearly understood by both parties. Then they can move on to something more platonic without sexual needs interfering. By that time, both parties would either have fallen out of love, if they were lovers, and now enjoy a different level of understanding and appreciation, or they would have accepted the conclusion that only a platonic friendship is possible between them.

There are a few exceptions to this but there really are very few, because when it comes to men and women, sex will always be in the equation. That's how two people get together to reproduce our species and that will always be at the forefront of any meeting: the potential to mate. Obviously, once that is sorted, in one way or another, a different kind of friendship is possible. Each person will then appreciate the other in a more general way, feel more confident with the situation and more comfortable with having the person as a genuine friend. Only then will real friendship be allowed to develop.

Ayesha Takia 4

Girls Psychology !!!

Fraud with Innocent Boys

Fun with Handsome Boys

Friendship with Charming Boys

Contact with Intelligent Boys

Flirt with Freaky Boys

Love with Faithful Boys

& in the end Marriage with the Rich Boy

Moral of the story :

Chandramukhi ho yaa Paaro,

Sab Ek jaisi hai Yaaro !!!!

Simple friend vs . real friends

1.A simple friend has never seen you cry
A real friend has shoulders soggy from u r tears

2.A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when u have an argument.
A real friend knows that it’s not a friendship until after you’ve had a fight

3. A simple friend hates it when u call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks u why u took so long to call.!

4. A simple friend, when visiting , acts like a gust
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

5. A simple friend wonders about u r romantic history
A real friend could blackmail you with it.

6. A simple friend expects you to always be there for them
A real friend expects to always be there for you

So, try to find always a real friend in your life. Not a simple friend…

YOU ARE

you are:- As innocent as a flower
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As sweet as cherry pie
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As beautiful as a sunset
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As bright as a firefly
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As clever as a musician
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As romantic as a red rose
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As genuine as a teardrop
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As funny as a clown’s nose
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As honest as a young child
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As fun as a merry-go-round
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As rare as a four leaf clover
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As down-to-earth as the ground
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As friendly as a butterfly
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As precious as passing youth
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As gorgeous as miss world is
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As valuable as pure truth

LIFE & MOBILE

Life before marriage is AIRTEL
" u can express ur self ".

During honeymoon is RELIANCE-
" Always get in Touch ".

After Honeymoon is HUTCH
" Wherever u go ur wife network follows".

After one year Life is IDEA
" ur wife can change ur life ".

After 10 years Life is BSNL
" Subscriber is not reachable "?????????


Life is just Fun ,
like Ice Cream,
Enjoy it before it melts !

A FRIEND

A friend is a tissue when you can't stop crying

A friend is a shoulder when you feel like dying

A friend always listens when you have something to say

A friend is a week when you just need a day

A friend is a crutch when you have a broken heart

A friend is some glue when everything falls apart

A friend is a sun when the rain just won't stop

A friend is your mom when you run into a cop

A friend is a phone call when you can't leave your home

A friend is a hand when you feel all alone

A friend is a wing if you want to fly

A friend understands without knowing why

A friend is an ear for a secret to tell A friend is an aspirin when your head hurts like hell

A friend is a love that can never let go

MEANING OF "FRIENDS FOR EVER"

F riends
R esponsible
I ntelligent
E xciting to be Around
N ice Always
D ependable
S miles a Lot


F riendly Personality
O utstanding
R eally Great Memories


E xcellent Listener
V ery Kind
E njoyable
R emember our friendship

FRIENDSHIP

FRIENDSHIP IS A PRICELESS GIFT
THAT CANNOT BE BOUGHT OR SOLD
BUT ITS VALUE IS FAR GREATER
THAN THE MOUNTAIN MADE OF GOLD
FOR GOLD IS COLD & LIFELESS
IT CAN NEITHER SEE NOR HEAR
& IN THE TIME OF TROUBLE
IT IS POWER LESS 2 CHEER--
IT HAS NO EARS 2 LISTEN
NOR HEART 2 UNDERSTAND
IT CANNOT BRING U COMFORT
OR REACH OUT A HELPING HAND
SO WHEN U ASK GOD
FOR A GIFT
BE THANKFUL IF
HE SENDS NOT DIAMONDS,
PEARLS OR RICHES
BUT THE LOVE
OF
REAL
TRUE
FRIENDS

FRIENDSHIP.................

FRIENDSHIP MEAN BEAUTY OF A HUMAN
FRIENDSHIP MEAN LIKE GOLDS
FRIENDSHIP MEAN FRESH FLOWER
FRIENDSHIP MEAN FEELING
FRIENDSHIP MEAN HAPPINESS
FRIENDSHIP MEAN PLEASED
FRIENDSHIP MEAN SHARING
FRIENDSHIP MEAN THINKING
FRIENDSHIP MEAN SUGGESTION
FRIENDSHIP MEAN CONNECTION
FRIENDSHIP MEAN WASTING TIME
FRIENDSHIP MEAN KILLER OF LIFE
FRIENDSHIP MEAN TEASING FRIENDSHIP MEAN JOKING
FRIENDSHIP MEAN GOOD RELATIONSHIP
FRIENDSHIP MEAN GOOD PARTNER
FRIENDSHIP MEAN CALLING IN A SAVIOR CONDITION
FRIENDSHIP MEAN LEAVING IN A SAVIOR CONDITION
FRIENDSHIP MEAN LIVING IN A GOOD CONDITION
FRIENDSHIP MEAN TIME PASS
FRIENDSHIP MEAN INVESTIGATE
FRIENDSHIP MEANS A PART OF LIFE
FRIENDSHIP MEANS A NICE THING
FRIENDSHIP MEANS A RIVER
FRIENDSHIP MEAN WINDS
FRIENDSHIP MEAN VERY SENSITIVE RELATION
FRIENDSHIP MEAN TREES OF FOOD
FRIENDSHIP MEAN TASTE THAN SUGAR


So lets be friends forever

Frienddship

Friendship between women:


A woman doesn't come home one night.
The next day she tells her husband that she had slept over at a girlfriend's house.

The husband calls his wife's 10 best friends.
None of them know anything about it.


Friendship between men:

A man doesn't come home one night.
The next day he tells his wife that he had slept over at a friend's house.
The wife calls her husband's 10 best men friends.
Eight of them confirm that he had slept over, and two claim that he was still there

Frnds R Priceless

A son asks to the mother: - Mother, can i go to the hospital to see my friend? - He is sick! - ok, but what does he have?? The son, with the head drops, says: -Tumor in the brain. The mother, furiously, says: - AND you want to go there for what? to See him die? huh!!!

The son gives her the back and goes to see him ,Hours afterwards he come back full of cry, saying: - Ah mother, was so horrible, he died in my

front! The mother, with rage: - AND now?! r u happy?! was it worth seeing that scene?

A last tear falls from his eyes and,

accompanied with a smile he says: - A lot, therefore on time when i arrive i see him smile and say: "- I WAS SURE THAT YOU will COME! "

Morale of the story: The friendship is not summarized alone in good hours, joy and party. bt friendship is also abt giving support in bad times...treasure

ur friends..!!CONSERVE ur. FRIENDS!


The VALUE THAT
THEY HAVE
is priceless